American Expats: Exploring the Journey of International Move and Acclimation

When I stepped off my one-way flight to Valencia, Spain, on September 1, 2017, I knew I was starting a new chapter of my life. The decision to move abroad can be driven by a plethora of reasons, and in my case, it was a direct response to the political climate in the United States. With the election of President Trump, there was a significant rise in the number of people who felt marginalized by mainstream politics. I found myself part of a growing exodus of Americans seeking solace in countries where they felt more at home.

Why Trump? The Climate of Dissatisfaction

The election of Donald Trump was awatershed moment for many

The election of Donald Trump was a watershed moment for many American expats like myself. The hoards of those who identified as misogynists, racists, bigots, homophobes, xenophobes, and anti-science individuals were vocal and insidious in their support. Their belief that Trump was "the greatest thing since sliced bread" was concerning, to say the least. For those who did not share these views, it became clear that remaining in the United States would perpetuate living under a political system they found repugnant.

The First Steps: Building a New Home

When relocations to new countries are successful, it often hinges on the early stages of exploration and integration. Our journey began with a simple but crucial step: finding a realtor. Our contacts were limited, but our realtor became the cornerstone of our experience in Spain. Over the first few weeks, we focused on establishing our new home, which included setting up utilities, securing furniture, and getting our furniture in place.

After setting up our living space, the real work of integration began. We spent the next three months exploring the local area, attending community events, and meeting neighbors. This period was pivotal in allowing us to understand the culture, climate, and lifestyle of Valencia and the surrounding regions. By the end of the three-month window, we felt quite comfortable in our surroundings. Our new environment was slowly becoming second nature, and we were starting to form strong connections with the community.

Settling In: The Balance of Good and Bad

Reflecting on the transition to our new life in Valencia, it’s important to acknowledge the balance between positive and negative aspects. While there were undoubtedly challenges, the benefits far outweighed the drawbacks. For instance, waking up each morning with a sense of contentment and fulfillment is a rare luxury in today’s fast-paced world. A routine that allows one to live a dream without the usual stressors of daily work is the ideal setting for a fulfilling existence.

Our small mountain village, nestled an hour south of the picturesque city of Valencia and just 15 minutes from the charming medium-sized city of Gandia, provides a perfect blend of natural beauty and urban amenities. The trails in the mountains, shaded walks in Gandia, and sandy beaches of Playa de Gandia offer a multitude of activities, from hiking and exploring nature to relaxing on the coastline. This combination of outdoor adventures and cultural excursions serves to enrich our daily lives and maintain a balanced existence.

Financial Sustainability: Living Off Social Security

A significant advantage of our relocation was the ability to live comfortably on our Social Security benefits. The cost of living in Valencia is considerably lower than in the United States, particularly for those who have relocated to suburban or rural areas. With our Social Security checks, we are able to maintain a quality of life that allows us to pursue interests and hobbies without the need for supplementary income.

Our minimal dependence on additional income means we have the freedom to avoid grueling jobs in the retail sector or other low-paying industries. This level of financial independence not only enhances our lifestyle but also provides a sense of security and peace of mind. Moreover, the social and political climate in Valencia is notably different from that of the United States, offering a respite from the divisiveness often associated with the Trump era.

Concluding Reflections: A Home Away from Home

For many American expats, the move to a new country is a transformative experience. It requires not just physical relocation but a complete shift in mindset and lifestyle. However, when the move is made for the right reasons and supported by a supportive community, the rewards of such a journey are immeasurable. My time in Valencia has been characterized by a profound sense of home, where I feel comfortable and content. The good far outweighs the minimal bad, and each day is filled with the promise of new adventures and experiences.